I just started wedding planning and stumbled on this post at the exact right second, OK, Actually I know I’m late to the party.
Plus it’s affordable!
DB almost as a joke with my mom to start dress shopping we figured I could try on dresses there to get a feeling of what styles looked good on my body, and hereupon go real dress shopping. So while I was there I found a dress that I’m madly in love with.i’ve managed to develop a total complex about the dress as it’s from David’s Bridal and I never in a million years imagined that I’d get my dress there. Notice that it’s tea length with an illusion neckline and cap sleeves, and I haven’t found a picture of a single dress I love more than it in general internet. You should take this seriously. Then the dress that I found at David’s is exactly what I didn’t know I was looking for, and it’s for me.
Thank you for this post!
They went on and on about how ‘gross’ DB dresses were and how only ‘trailer trash’ would shop there and that everything they sold was ‘disgusting’.
DB and the world of shit I got from a certain amount my ‘friends’ was crazy. Gross. This is the case. Planning to get a dress there -I thought. Mads, I got my dress at David’s Bridal just like this was a poser at that specific store, right after reading the comments.
David’s Bridal as long as I had a pretty bad experience there as a bridesmaid where I felt like the bride was treated like royalty and bridesmaids like crap as they knew we had no choice about buying the dress.
Yup.
My SIL did DB for our bridesmaid dresses this summer. Were they cheap material? Was it a cheap price tag to go with it? Anyway. For example, bM dresses? Oftentimes aPW only links to products and services that will add value to our audience. We monetize all the links on our site. APW may receive a commission, I’d say in case you click on the link and make a purchase.
I know it’s fairly traditional with Alencon lace, a sweep train, covered buttons, even a bow, in the end, Know what, I found an used dress I loved.
‘indiewedding’ WIC can be just as constraining and demanding as the traditional WIC, like others have said.
Which is ridiculous as long as I love my dress. You don’t need a Vera Wang gown or a handmade one to have a great wedding dress. When I went to actually buy it from the bridal boutique I was sobbing and sobbing and realized that I was disappointed in myself for not buying a vintage one off etsy or finding one at a thrift store. Lady who helped me was in her ‘mid 50s’ and very polite. With all that said… No regret. Well, By the way I tried it on, loved it, burst into tears and hereupon plunked down my bank card. She didn’t ask why my mother wasn’t there. I walked into a David’s Bridal, after falling out of love with ress #1 and with only 9 weeks until my wedding.
Far, thence good.
Thankfully, she didn’t speak in chirpy tones or use the words Special Day.
Miraculously, she didn’t ask why I was alone. For instance, she studied me a moment, asked my shoe size, bra size and dress size, after that, walked away and returned within moments with ONE dress. My mom made me try on something she found in the Mother Of The Bride section. Then again, yep, I got married in something from the Mother of the Bride section at David’s Bridal. Of course, my complaint about DB ain’t emotional but practical – a bunch of their dresses are made really poorly for the cost. Usually, shopJoielle let’s say, that is where my bridesmaids got theirs. It was italian, silk, one shoulder with a funky strap, a flowy almost white silk chiffon trainy thing that would look beautiful flowing in the breeze.
To think I was planning to spend 100+ hours with my friend designing one!!
It was I didn’t look for awful polyester. Which Undoubtedly it’s!! THEN in the Vera Wang section I found it!! So, we went to Davids Bridal. Heavy. My friends quizzed me and made me explain to them why i loved it. Usually, greek goddess dress also one shoulder, and so comfy and gorgeous, and its $ 630 plus alterations! My wedding is late July and outdoors! Very good timing! One other dress was $ 3400 but i loved it. NYC and my budget is $ 600 plus maybe for alterations. Now am so relieved to have this dress as a 99 dot 9 percent the one, I am still planning to look a little more just as I only just started to look and its fun.
My brother is getting married this summer and as a bridesmaid So it’s this pain in the freaking ass to deal with this fancy bridal boutique my future sister in law is making us buy from.
Gross.
Second, I’m spending a bazillion dollars on this dress when DB has identical damn style in identical damn color. Third, By the way I live 6 hours away from everyone else and it’s logistically a nightmare. We are not going there, that place is for trash! Her sister said Ewwww, as long as when I mentioned intending to DB. Now pay attention please. My love for my brother prevents me from saying anything. Actually, the dresses aren’t all that great as far as quality goes. Why are we buying from the fancy shop and not DB? Awesome. You see, stressed the boutiques wouldn’t be able to deal with my small budget and ample body, By the way I went to DB. Thanks for this post. It had been a great experience and I was surprised at how pretty I look in strapless. With the proper undergarments and tailoring, -based on 15 experience years dressing my topheavy figure -I have this sense that, To be honest I could comfortably wear just about any dress that is not completely backless.
TBH this strikes me as kind of judgmental, though I can’t determine whether you’re judging the indie kids for being isn’t since sometimes you just gotta do what you gotta do to keep yourself sane while planning your wedding. Consequently, whenever someone comes to me and expresses concern that David’s Bridal a solitary place they can find a dress in their size and price range with minimal effort, they somehow feel that it’s wrong to go there I give them a virtual high five and tell them to choose it. Anyways, I wear Lilly Pulitzer and have a monogrammed tote bag, like seriously.
It started when I was planning my own wedding.
Just, you know, effortlessly so.
Armed with something like $ 5000, we set out to plan a wedding that would feel like a giant party, that would look good in pictures, and that will feature ocean views to boot. While something Michael could wear jeans to, we wanted something informal and casual. We also wanted it to be stylish. For 250 people. Michael and I were a couple of broke kids who wanted to have a totally different wedding than the ones we’d been to before. Anyway, it had been discontinued and they offered to put me on a list to get it if one in my size got returned. Consequently I realized I gonna be done with the dress decision. Geez is this so true! That said, no luck in my size, looked around to get an used one. David’s Bridal but I felt quite similar way getting my dress at J Crew. Had most of angst about wearing a chain store dress, until my nowhusband asked, you wear J Crew clothes in REAL lifespan, right? This particular smart man. Make sure you drop a comment about it below. Why is this different?
Oh. Sometimes when a sales person asks my mom for her phone number, she replies Can I have yours first? Decisions are not my strong point, and I was originally fretting over Finding the Dress that should Reflect My True Identity. Generally, we all paid $ 150 and got free shipping and made 13 other girls very happy after we all donated them to a local thrift store. It was easy. We sort of decided that we will have to go down that route anyway and I was beating myself up about a little. Thanks for this article Maddie! I really didn’t need to go down the WIC route. We have a small budget but also don’t have the luxury of time to go hunt / research for alternatives, and in Singapore So there’re very few alternatives. Because I wanted to have an ethical wedding, sTRESSED MYSELF OUT over wanting an indie dress and indie bridesmaid dresses. This is the case. FOR THEM. You were living this hell 3 years ago, right with me!
Maddie, where was this post 3 years ago?
Which we mostly did.
FFS, I originally planned on having JCrew for my bridesmaids and hereupon had this existential cr over it and drove my bridesmaids nuts. Oh. Nevertheless, for those more ethically conscientious, it would’ve been worth taking a look at DB’s Ethical Sourcing Policy. When they ask Can I have your email address? One of my friends does this and it actually has the word junk in the email. What I didn’t realize was that it had to be cleaned, and only at this special place in San Mateo, thence altered at another South Bay place. You can find some more info about it on this website. For our wedding I had the idea that I would find some great wedding dress for pennies in a Salvation Army somewhere and alter it into something cool and unique When the dress failed to materialize a friend convinced me to go to a ‘hoitytoity’ wedding Salon by Union Square in SF.
David’s Bridal after being dragged around to all manner of bridal salons and having extremely lacy frilly mostly gaudy forget it my type gowns foisted on me.
All my maids ordered their dresses through their local DB and they’ve been all happy.
The online dress got returned and I ordered That One Dress. Besides, it didn’t look much on the hanger but when I tried it on? DB. Seriously. Its the one ain’t it, mom saw it and said I’d never have chosen that one for you. This is the case. DB catalogue and when I tried it on, it just wasn’t the one. Notice, we found a similar one online and ordered it. As a result, that One Dress. It arrived and the color of the beading was PINK not almost white like I wanted. Actually I was proud that I found a great dress on sale, my husband asked me to quit telling everyone how little we paid.
I thought the materials looked less nice up close, and they had hardly any dresses with straps, that is what I was looking for, David’s Bridal with my mom, and I didn’t find anything that was right for me -the service was fine.
Great selection at the store in NYC, and I love the dress I bought there.
Let’s also hear it for the JCrew brides! For me, JCrew was the easy, inexpensive option. Usually, thanks for this post. Almost laughed when I saw the price tag, 395 -well under half of my budget, so got 50 off! My sister came out with a light/simple lace maxi and I fell in love. Basically, decided to have a look at Davids Bridal, tried on 100 dresses that were not me, heavy and puffy and felt totally disheartened!
BEAUTIFUL! We have had our first store of DB open recently, as a UK bride. Please don’t spontaneously make up an email address to give to vendors. Create an email just for junk and give them that one. One minor note about the fake email address thing. Something I didn’t realize initially was this. Needless to say. Thank you very much for this!I am in the throes of wedding dress angst, and your post is so useful for me to hear. Just keep reading! That was look for you to think they are.
Wedding dresses are similar to that.
While shopping vintage for your wedding dress was not exactly a walk in the park, Sure, you can buy used or vintage, as Meg pointed out way above.i should end up being more stressed about how and when everything was should be set up rather than spending time just chilling and having a decent time. For example, what people don’t consider is the TIME it will take to do all this indie stuff, especially from the DIY angle. By the way I felt some shame when I hired a florist since I had a somewhat complex vision but I KNEW that I could make kickass centerpieces myself. While they are wonderful people, Actually I realized that I would also have to set them up and my friends and family, they would most likely get in the way rather than be helpful about it.
That part in Meg’s book is SO right -sometimes you’re paying someone for the convenience of not thinking about whatever you’re paying them for.
My one friend got a MOB dress from there that complimented the bridesmaid dresses she had picked out as well.
Can I just add that David’s bridal is fantastic for this, as a five time Bridesmaid. David’s Bridal was a dream for my weddings in Minnesota, Ohio, Pennsylvania and Illinois, unless all of your girls are local. Doesn’t it sound familiar? It was easy to coordinate and get similar looking material for different styles, or be sure the dresses were identical. Plus the attendants do not mess around, they are very efficient. Nonetheless, no shit, Actually I pretended to be my sister, and told them that my fiance died and it really upset me almost any time they called about the wedding.
Whatever, my husband was kind of pissed that I told someone he died.
That is definitely not an exaggeration about them haunting you until you die.
Boom, no more phone calls. Anyways, as far as my shopping experience went? Amazing. Therefore, she got me a bottle of water and sat and talked to me about long distance relationships and how to make moving easier. Then again, she told me about her own experience when she and her husband were doing the LDR and how she didn’t realize how truly lonely she was until she moved to be with her husband. Essentially, i don’t regret it whatsoever. However, i thought I love Target!
It’s not special enough for my WEDDING DAY moment when I was considering $ 5 fake pearl and rhinestone earrings from Target.
Received her formal training from NYU in Entertainment and Mass Media in Shenow spends a significant interval thinking about trends on the internet and whether flower crowns going to be out next year, She’s been writing stories about boys. And therefore relationships since she was old enough to form shapes into words.
Current hair color. Maddie is APW’s Chief Revenue Officer. On top of this, you can drive yourself just as crazy attempting to have a cool indie wedding, don’t ought to think about. On top of this, well, it’s easy to tell yourself you’re keeping sane by not buying into the big wedding industry business.
What did I learn?
Because you know what?
Like, for instance, a whole warehouse of dresses in your size and price range. Cool indie shit takes work. Sometimes the WIC does actually provide things to you that make life easier.i’ve seen loads of dresses from both places up close, and I’d say the quality is all about comparable. Therefore, this definitely is largely a serious problem of style. Despite the similarities in price point between their bridal styles, JCrew is aimed at an uppermiddleclass clientele. DB, however, has a less highend reputation. Now let me tell you something. David’s Bridal. They have been about $ 1500 my price out range, nicole Miller and tried on the most magnificent dresses ever.i tried non profit sample stores, department stores, regular everyday stores, and nothing fit the bill. Except it also had to hold up my boobs and it had to be less than $ NBD.Until I started looking and couldn’t find my dress anywhere. It’s a well-known fact that the dress, to me, was the symbol of our wedding’s cool factor. Nowhere was this truth more evident than in my dress search.
That’s what people having regular weddings do. Eventually I settled on this BCBG evening dress, a steal at $ I loved it. It was an end of season sale and I got the dress for $ 99! Know what guys, I went to David’s Bridal. With all that said… David’s Bridal dress. Experience was everything I was looking for. -it was only one left, and fit me perfectly. Better part? Did you know that the Dress, the third one I tried on, and with a couple tweaks and alterations, Actually I had an amazing ‘vintagelooking’ dream dress! I’m sure you heard about this. Maddie, my opinion is forever changed! Spent a couple of anxious days painting the buttons white again with nail polish. Heading off to David’s Bridal this morning to look at dresses. So, we are talking about all the reasons I made my DB appointment first and foremost. Of course, was feeling a bit off about it and now feeling a whole lot better!
By the way I can see now that 99percentage of my problems were caused by my brain’s insistence that my dress had to be INDIE and DIFFERENT,. It’s a well-known fact that the irony is that I wore the ’50s dress for the weddings. Woohoo! Came out whiter! What I liked specifically about J Crew was that I felt like they’ve been charging me for a wedding dress what they would charge for identical dress in another color as an evening gown. Crew, only one place I shopped, and was ecstatic to have the dress shopping over with in 60 minutes. I know it’s the many styles I like. Fact, if I buy this now, I’m almost sure I never have to think about dress shopping again. Although, while thinking This looks good on me, as it turned out, my actual Dress Moment was staring at myself in the mirror at David’s Bridal. Now let me tell you something. JCrew’s bridal department is not the juggernaut that DB is within the wedding industry. It’s interesting to me that so many people have such negative opinions about DB, yet JCrew doesn’t seem to come in for very similar percentage of criticism.
They sell a similarly priced, ready to wear product.
In addition, you could see my belly button.
Except two weeks before my wedding my mom and sister staged an intervention and expressed their concern that my unlined tiered dress and big boobs were a surefire combination for a wardrobe malfunction. Plus they have been really helpful and actually listened when I told them what I was looking for. As a result, david’s Bridal and was worried about making an appointment. They provided me a slip and bra to try dresses on with and none of the other places did that. I recieved waaay better service there and they had a waaay better selection for a plus sized gal just like myself compared to the locally owned shops in my town, as it turned out. Reading all the comments here.
NOW I’m planning to give them a try. David’s Bridal because of the high rates and fear they’d try to sell me something outside my minuscule price range. Not everybody needs to have a super expensive, bespoke, designer gown. However, overall, I actually was more than pleased with my DB experience. However, that people who actively thrift end up with loads of the less common stuff, my broader feeling is that the entire vintagewhatever look is pretty accessible if that’s already your style, that is basically what KB was saying to begin with. Besides, they brought it out to me in a petite, when it was one non david’s experience I had with that, they have been so delayed it was almost panic inducing. It’s a well-known fact that the shop the girl went to wouldn’t add a dress two weeks finally the other girls placed their order, By the way I once was asked to be a bridesmaid. DB. Remember, really, it worked out perfectly. My wedding dress fit my style and was affordable. AND the bridesmaids dresses were actually cotton with pockets! Then, since DB has multiple styles of bridesmaids dresses in identical colors and fabrics. Even better, with bridesmaids scattered throughout the midwest, it was great that they could any hop over to their local DB and purchase their dresses. You didn’t have to pay for alterations, you were lucky. For instance. We need to change our cultural attitude towards marital expectations. Alteration specialists in our store didn’t speak ‘Englishthey’ also worked for commission.
My family is fighting tooth and nail against this, my budget is $ 4,I attempting to suppress my worries about a dress and instead organize a week long meet and greet of friends and family. Weddings So it’s not a coincidence that that is the year that my depression hit its strongest blow. Let me tell you something. Oh, and they didn’t pay commission until our earnings hit 200 $ per hour.
Would work with brides like you, who were easy to please, had an idea of what they wanted, a realistic budget, a realistic idea of bridal dress expectations, and actually wanted to buy a dress.
This is not an option in our culture.
It’s not all about the dress, it’s not all about the bride, the main thing that should cost less than the dress are the shoes that match rather than the dress being the most expensive thing purchased for the wedding. Those were nice days. Then, took it to the drycleaners in hope of getting rid of smell and whitening the dress. Anyway, bought vintage late ’30s/40s dress off Etsy. Spent more than the original price of the dress on alterations and repairs. With rips in the fabric, dress arrived smelling to high heaven and yellowed by age.